Do You Talk Negatively To Yourself? Comment Below




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How do you communicate with yourself throughout the day? Negative self talk can damage your self-esteem, self-worth, and confidence. To help you be more aware of how you talk to yourself, here are a few common yet dangerous self-talk phrases you should stop using.

DISCLAIMER: We want to emphasize that this video is in no way meant to attack anyone. If you find yourself identifying with these phrases, know that there are ways to grow and improve your self-talk

Want to learn more about how to take care of your mental health. We made another video on the things you can do to improve your mental health:

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Tips To Lower And Effectively Manage Stress

Stress can affect our lives negatively in many ways. If you have a lot of stress in your life, it can affect your relationships, your ability to focus and be productive, and even your health! That’s why it’s so important to learn to relieve and reduce stress in your life. Read on to find out how.

A great way that you can feel fantastic during the course of the day is to write in your journal. When you are trying to formulate sentences, your mind will not focus on the things that are causing you tension, which will improve your overall state and mind and reduce stress.

Meditation can be a great way for you to relieve stress. Try meditating each night before you go to bed. Turn off anything around you, close your eyes, and clear out your mind. Don’t think about things you need to get done or problems that you need to solve. Just let your mind relax for a little while and focus on each breath. If your mind starts wondering, just bring it back to your breath. Shutting off your brain takes practice, but each practice session is working off your stress.

Don’t let your emotions get bottled up. Find a way to release them and you won’t feel as stressed. Some people feel better after venting to a friend, others prefer to write to get their feelings out. If you’re sad, cry for a bit. If you’re angry, try hitting a punching bag for a few minutes. If your emotions aren’t being pent up, you won’t be as stressed.

Saying “no” more often will actually reduce the stress caused by giving in to things you really didn’t want to be obligated to and keep you from having to do them! When you are already pressed for time throughout your day, so saying “no” to offers people make that you are not actually interested in will give you more control and definitely less stress!

A great tip that can help you keep your stress down is to draw or paint something. Drawing and painting are great ways to fight stress because you focus on being creative. It’s a great way to keep your mind off of certain things and you’ll also have some art to show off.



Take more vitamins. Vitamin B has been shown to help reduce stress. Try to take between 100 percent and 300 percent of the daily allowance. Minerals such as chromium, calcium, magnesium, iron, copper, molybdenum, zinc, manganese, and selenium also help you to better deal with stress. Stay away from vitamins labeled as stress relievers as they are usually just vitamin B.

A great tip that can help you fight stress is to simply have sex. The act of having sex releases endorphins into the body. These chemicals go straight to the brain and have a significant effect on our moods. Having sex now and then can help keep stress levels down.

Avoid stress when possible! High blood pressure can be the direct result of too much stress in our lives. It is, of course, natural to experience a short-term spike in blood pressure under stressful situations. Think, for example, about a typical trip to the doctor’s office. Many people experience such as spike under such conditions. Long term elevation in blood pressure due to stress, however, is considerably more concerning!

You should discover your main causes of stress, and find out methods of eliminating or reducing them as much as you can. For example, if one of your friends is always finding ways to get you stressed out, try to be less active in that friendship. Getting rid of the causes of stress whenever possible can really improve your health and attitude.

If you’ve been feeling really stressed, finding a new hobby or refocusing on an old one can help you relax. Whether it’s gardening, knitting, hiking or painting, a hobby can help you step back from whatever is stressing you and get a new perspective on life. Take time out from each day to engage in your hobby.

Next time you feel stressed and want to give up, do the opposite. Fighting through stress by being proactive, is an important step to controlling the situation. When you are passive about the the situation, you can easily develop a growing level of helplessness, which will only add more stress to your plate. Get in front of the situation.

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Stop smoking. Smoking is often a reaction to stress. When stressed people actively seek out chemicals and activities that they perceive as providing relief. Tobacco contains nicotine and it is a powerful addictive chemical. Smoking also keeps your hands occupied, something your mind sometimes pushes you to do when you are stressed.

To reduce the amount of stress hormones in your body, find ways to laugh! Laughter has been proven to be one of the best defenses the body has against stress. Try keeping a few funny jokes, pictures, or videos on-hand so that you can look at them when you’re feeling burnt out. You’ll be surprised at how much better a little laughter makes you feel.

Laugh. Laughter is one of the top stress-busters. Adults on average laugh less than 20 times a day; children, on the other hand, laugh hundreds of times a day. Is it surprising that adults are more stressed? Watch your favorite comedies, laugh at your pet, and laugh with your children. You’ll notice that you don’t feel as stressed.

To handle stress on a busy day, try to set aside some time just to do nothing. This will be difficult to do because, no doubt, you have a hundred things that you need to accomplish during the day. However, setting aside time just to sit and not rush around can be therapeutic. It can reinvigorate you so you have energy to tackle the rest of your responsibilities for the day.

Remember that stress from all areas of life can negatively impact you in many ways. If you practice the tips from this article, you can improve your job, your family life, and your emotional, mental, and physical well being. Remember to recognize symptoms of stress in yourself and take a step back if you need to.



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